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NJSOCF People |
Susan Pizzo: A "Blessed" Life
"Fortunately, I have a fairly mild case and have never been terribly sick," she says. "But CF is something that has always been there in my life. I was diagnosed at birth and have received ongoing treatment but have never been hospitalized as a result of the disease." Always active Susan attended South Philadelphia High School, graduated in 1979 and went to work at a local bank "feeling good." "I was originally very interested in a career at the bank in loss prevention and security, but could never follow through with the special training because I had to take more than the normal amount of sick days due to occasional respiratory issues," she said. "Despite that, I was always on the go and very busy, especially after I met and married my wonderful husband, Carmen in 1995, and became Mom to his son, Carmen, Jr. I got a double blessing." Susan threw herself into work and family life, but at age 39, her doctor told her the time had come to slow down and start taking better care of herself. Taking care Susan worked as a teller for a while and then the family decided to move to New Jersey. At that point, Susan decided the time had come to take it easy. "Even though I absolutely hated the idea, I decided to apply for disability, first short term, then long. It turned out to be the right decision because my health has improved a lot and I feel so much better." NJSOCF helps "The organization has helped our family so much,"
she said. "Thanks to their assistance with insurance
co-pays, we can live comfortably. They also help with
my food expenses. The stress they have taken from our
lives is the answer to our prayers." Susan says that her faith in God, her husband and stepson, now 20 and involved in the ministry as a youth pastor in Lakeland, Florida, have sustained her over the years. "I belong to a great church and have a wonderful, supportive family," she says. "I am surrounded by people that love and care for me and also draw strength from the Lord. I am truly blessed." |
Kristin Frees - Miracle on 168th Street"After double lung transplant surgery earlier this year, it feels like I never even had cystic fibrosis," says 24-year-old Kristin Frees of Linden. "The surgery was truly a miracle and my life has been given back to me." Kristin was diagnosed with cystic fibrosis at the age of four and grew up in a large family, with four siblings and parents Robert and Carolyn. "Cystic fibrosis didn't affect me that much when I was little," she says. "I was just annoyed that therapy cut into my play and activity time. But when I was in middle school I really started to feel the effects and my symptoms got worse when I got to high school." By then, Kristin was on home and portable IV's, antibiotics, lung physical therapy, and oxygen but she had a lot of support from her family and kept a hopeful attitude. She graduated from Linden High School and started college, but her battle with CF continued. In 2006, St. Barnabas Medical Center in Livingston admitted and treated Kristin off and on for several weeks after Easter. Kristin's father, Robert, believed the time had come for his daughter to get a lung transplant and made an appointment at the famed transplant center at Columbia Presbyterian Medical Center in Manhattan. "We had one appointment at the medical center and the doctors told us that Kristin was definitely a candidate for a lung transplant; it was just a matter of timing," her father says. "Her lung capacity was very low but they did not think she was at immediate risk so we were told to go home and monitor her very closely." Only ten days later in June, Kristin woke her dad at 3 a.m. and told him she needed to go to the emergency room. "My parents carried me to the car and took me back to St. Barnabas where I was re-admitted to the ICU. I don't remember much but my Dad tells me the staff there did a wonderful job." Kristin's Dad took action from her bedside. "He was on the phone with Columbia Presbyterian Medical Center in New York, where I had been for the consultation. He told them I needed an immediate lung transplant," she says. Mr. Frees' persistence paid off. Columbia Presbyterian finally sent an ambulance for Kristin and the very next day found a pair of lungs that were a match. "It was a miracle," Kristin says. Kristin had double lung transplant surgery on June 19th. "I tell her that June 19th is now her second birthday, because it was the day she got a new life," her father says. A new life But Kristin now has a new definition of "normal" that has nothing to do with CF. "It's been so long since I was able to do simple things like walk around, play with my nieces and nephews in the yard, or even read something out loud, that I had forgotten what it was like," she says. "Now my life has been given back to me." Kristin plans to finish her education at Kean University, where she only has a few more courses left for a B.S. in psychology. "I may go on for a master's degree and become a counselor," she says. "After having been helped by so many, it's now my turn to help others." Looking back over what happened, Kristin's father has a word of advice for other CF patients thinking about a lung transplant: "Don't wait too long." "That's the most important thing," he says. "You need to make an appointment at a top-notch transplant center, get counseling and monitoring, and start planning well in advance. CF patients tend to have excellent outcomes from this kind of surgery. I say, go ahead, get the transplant and wait for the rest of science to catch up to you." NJSOCF helps "We share the ups and downs of living with CF on a personal level with many of our program participants," says NJSOCF Executive Director Debra Sikkema. "Kristin's story is extraordinary, and we are glad to able to help. We wish Kristin and her whole family all the best for a happy and healthy holiday, and many, many more."
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Marty Rittenberg: It's "a labor of love."
"I have been involved for about twelve years and think this is an organization with a unique and wonderful mission-providing direct financial assistance to those who need it most," he said. Marty's awareness of the New Jersey State Organization of Cystic Fibrosis began with his son, Harris. "Even though he had CF, he lived life to the fullest," he says. "He was Senior Class President, a member of the Honor Society and was accepted to Columbia University before he passed on at the age of only 18, back in 1983." Reflecting on the improvements in diagnosis and treatment for CF patients, Marty says he often wonders if that would have made a difference with his son. "Back then we went from doctor to doctor, not knowing what the problem was or what to do. Now things are so much different and better. Our daughter Mindy's two young children have been tested for CF and fortunately they are in the clear." Marty joined our board after being contacted by NJSOCF founder Estelle Sikkema. "I couldn't refuse," he said. "NJSOCF is a unique organization, almost like a family. We have one event, our Fall Dinner and Fashion Show, which draws more than 400 people. That says it all. Now NJSOCF Vice President and retired from a lifelong career as an educator on the public school and college level, Marty says he is totally committed to The New Jersey State Organization of Cystic Fibrosis: "The work they do is so necessary and the services they provide so badly needed, there is no way I am not going to continue to do my very best on their behalf."
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Three good friends "stay the course" for Cystic Fibrosis"All for one and one for all" could be the motto for three good friends from Lake Hiawatha who have been supporters of NJSOCF for almost twenty-five years.
Josephine Serritella, Carole Sanguino, and Sue Thorpe are all long-time neighbors, who became dedicated to the cystic fibrosis cause when Sue's young son, Stephen, was battling the disease in the late 1970's. "We all had children in the same age range and our families all went through all of it with Sue, Stephen and the rest of the family," says Josephine. "We were all at home, the kids were young and we saw first-hand how tough it was for the Thorpes. Carole agrees. "We saw how Stephen and his parents suffered," she says. "He fought the disease so hard and so very much wanted to be just like the other kids, but he couldn't. We had a pool and would spend lots of time helping him splash around and have a good time." Sue says that she will never forget the support from her friends. "Stephen was old enough when he died at age nine, in 1982, to know that there was not a cure for cystic fibrosis. He very much wanted for someone to find one, so we all pitched in to do what we could to help others battling the disease." Josephine says that NJSOCF founder Estelle Sikkema contacted the three friends to see if they wanted to help her organization, dedicated to helping CF families with medical and prescription expenses, insurance and nutritional supplements. "We had first met Estelle when she was working with the Cystic Fibrosis Foundation. All of us liked the idea that she now wanted to provide direct help, even though we realize that the research part of things is important, too," said. Carol. "After seeing what Sue went through, we knew how badly families need financial assistance and other direct help." The three friends agreed to pitch in to help Estelle and her organization and their support has been constant ever since. "We have worked on a variety of special events for NJSOCF, but the Fall Dinner and Fashion Show has become our main focus for the past few years," says Sue. "We have gotten our grown children involved and all of us work hard to make sure the dinner is a big success every year." Josephine says they make the dinner a joint effort and even though all three now have jobs, play an active role, especially with ticket sales and helping out with the raffle the night of the event." All three agree that the NJSOCF mission is right on target. "The day to day help they provide is so important," says Carol. "The adult program is very much needed because so many CF patients are living longer and do not have insurance coverage to help with expenses. NJSOCF provides them with a lifeline of support." Josephine says she looks at her work with NJSOCF as a way of giving something back. "Working with NJSOCF has meant a lot to all of us. NJSOCF does wonderful work and maybe we will even see a cure some day. I hope I live to see that." Sue says that, looking back, she wishes she had the kind of help NJSOCF now provides. "It's a hard, expensive struggle," she says. "Direct financial assistance can make all the difference to families. It's the practical help that is so badly needed. NJSOCF is there to offer it to families in need. They are simply the best."
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Meet Cody and Tyler Anderson - Our New "Poster Boys" But nine-year old Tyler and seven-year-old Cody also have cystic fibrosis. So, in addition to all of the traditional activities of youngsters their age, they must also cope with the day-to-day realities of living with the disorder. "I am amazed at their positive, willing attitude towards coping with CF," says their Mom, Chandra. "They never give me any trouble with their treatment, pills, nutritional supplements, home IV's, physical therapy, or anything else. They understand how important the different therapies are and keep a positive attitude." Cody was diagnosed with CF at age 15 months. Chandra then had Tyler, then 2 ½ tested, and the results also came back positive. "Both boys had certain symptoms from an early age, including coughing and wheezing that just wouldn't go away," Chandra says. "Cody's symptoms led me to have him first checked out when he was only three months old, but the doctor told me that it was 'probably asthma' and that he would 'grow out of it.'" But when the symptoms persisted, Chandra switched to a specialist who referred Cody to Children's Hospital for definitive tests and he and Tyler were finally diagnosed in 1999. Chandra says that the diagnosis was "completely overwhelming. But from that day on, we have taken things one day at a time and focused on the practical matters of coping with cystic fibrosis." Chandra says that Tyler "had a great run" for several years but she is now concerned that his growth rate has slowed. "He now as a gastro tube for night feeding with a nutritional supplement and has been in and out of the hospital for the past year, but there are still no concrete answers for the slowdown in growth. Cody is still doing well and is on and off oral antibiotics." Chandra says that both boys attend school full-time and are good students who enjoy their activities and their friends. "Fortunately, they don't balk at anything they have to do related to CF and are now very involved with their own chest physical therapy, which takes 40 minutes, two times a day. We use a new vest system that allows for self-treatment, sometimes followed by manual clapping." Chandra says that she and her husband, Mike, treat their sons like any other children their age. "They are just such good sports about all of this that we don't want to do anything to make them feel that they are different from other youngsters. They have their baseball, karate, friends, and cousins who live right next door. The New Jersey State Organization of Cystic Fibrosis has been a big help, providing us with needed nutritional supplements as well as emotional support. We have chosen not to look too far down the road and just concentrate on living each day as it is given to us."
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George McDermottSpeaking out to raise awarenessNorth Arlington's George McDermott is a man with a mission: raising awareness about cystic fibrosis, a disease he has battled his entire life. George, a dispatcher for the North Arlington Police Department, has never let CF defeat him and would like to see more financial help made available to others who have the disease. He is now serving as the official adult spokesman for NJSOCF. "The more people know about the disease the more they will be likely to contribute towards helping the many New Jersey residents who have it," he said. "There are a lot of major misconceptions about CF and it is very important to clear them up." Positive attitudeGeorge has lived with CF his entire life. Diagnosed as a child, he grew up in New Jersey and graduated from Queen of Peace High School in North Arlington. He was lucky to have a "moderate" case of the disease and was active in sports and participated in many extra-curricular activities, including working with developmentally disabled children. After graduating from high school, he became certified as an EMT. He later joined the local fire department and completed full training. He joined the North Arlington police department in 1997 and remains an active volunteer in his community and with NJSOCF. Awareness, help needed"NJSOCF helped me by providing financial assistance through its adult program," he said. "I have always believed very strongly in their mission of providing direct financial assistance and want to do everything I can to raise awareness about the disease and let people know why patients so badly need help with their ongoing daily expenses." George has helped raise awareness and funds over the years by mounting an annual softball tournament in honor of a friend, Brian Murphy. Currently he organizes a "Bowling for CF Awareness" event that will be held again this November 12 at the Bowl-O-Drome in North Arlington. In addition to his job and his volunteer work, George still finds time to continue to help his community in several other areas. He is a soccer coach, teaches CPR, manages the web sites for the local ambulance and fire departments, and even does 'lunch duty' at the local school And branching out into a brand new area - politics - he will run for a seat on the North Arlington town council this November. His attitude is thoroughly positive and upbeat. "I am simply not going to let CF defeat me," George said. "Despite having it, I've gotten everything in life I wanted so far. A wonderful wife, Tish, two great kids, Brianna and Cheyenne, a house, and even a swimming pool. I believe I am good at what I do and always want to make changes for the better and improve things. I realize that I have been fortunate and want to do everything I can to help others, especially those who need help coping with the daily challenges of living with CF." More Photos of George McDermott FOR INFORMATION ON BOWLING
FOR CF AWARENESS, NOV. 12,
CALL (973) 595-1232 |
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Volunteer Debbie DuHaimeHonoring the Memory of Her Friend"Whenever I do something to help out the New Jersey State Organization of Cystic Fibrosis, the memory of my wonderful friend, Jill Leipzig, who was lost to cystic fibrosis 19 years ago at the age of only 23, is always with me," says volunteer Debbie DuHaime. Debbie has been very active with the organization for many years, most recently chairing the first annual "Seashells for Cystic Fibrosis" fundraiser, which enlisted the support of more than 50 local beauty salons. A long-time resident of Bloomingdale, she is well known in the New Jersey community, appearing on WABC (770), WBLS and New York One radio as morning traffic reporter. Keeping a PledgeDebbie first became acquainted with the NJSOCF through Jill. "I saw first hand the devastating toll that Jill's battle with CF took on her family and friends and how much help and support they received from the New Jersey State Organization of Cystic Fibrosis," she says. "I vowed then and there that I would always do my best to help out other patients and families affected by this terrible disease. Jill suffered but she always smiled and had a sparkle in her eye, living life to the fullest." Debbie has kept her pledge and maintained close ties with NJSOCF ever since and is in constant contact with Jill's mother Carol Leipzig, also an active volunteer for the organization. She attends as many NJSOCF fundraisers as she can and also recruits her friends and family to join in. "We all pull together for the golf tournament, bowling tournament and fall fashion show and dinner," she says. "I am blessed with fantastic family and friends who are very supportive and are ready and willing to help me out in raising funds for the organization." Debbie took the lead in some successful fundraising "dating auctions" several years ago and has now turned her energies to a new venture, "Seashells for Cystic Fibrosis," which was held this past June. Using her contacts as a representative for her father's business, Valentine Beauty Products, Debbie approached dozens of beauty salons in northern New Jersey and brought them in to the NJSOCF fundraising "fold." The fundraiser involved salon owners asking their clients to write their names on a paper seashell available in the salon. Salons provided information on NJSOCF programs and displayed a colorful poster. The first-time event raised $5,000. "I am very pleased with the results. For our first time, I think we did very well," Debbie says. "Some of the salons were very enthusiastic and really pushed for donations and we hope to expand the number of participants next year." Debbie is a firm believer in the NJSOCF mission of direct
financial assistance and emotional support for cystic
fibrosis patients. "I have total respect for the
organization and it's goals," she says. "I go
way back with them and am thankful for the way they helped
my friend, Jill. The link with both NJSOCF and Jill's
wonderful mother, Carol, is very important to me and I
will always keep them close." |
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